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Peter Millett

Ambassador to Libya, Tripoli

Part of FCDO Outreach

7th January 2015

Time to Stand and Stare

These days everyone seems to be in a hurry. Having a “busy schedule” has almost become a badge of honour of modern life. Employees rush from one meeting to the next; parents try to cram in lots of activities for their children; we hardly have time to stop and appreciate the world around us.

It wasn’t meant to be like this. New gadgets and gizmos were supposed to save time and create more leisure, so much so that academics used to fret about people having too much free time.

New cleaning machines like vacuum-cleaners, washing machines and dish-washers were designed to cut down on housework. The jet engine was expected to make intercontinental travel commonplace for both business and pleasure. And modern methods of communications were promoted as making access to information easier.

But these expectations have not been met. Information overload is a good example. In my first job, you could only copy a letter to 6 people because that was the number of copies a typist could hammer through the carbon paper. So you had to select very carefully the people who really needed to read what you had to say.

Typewriters were replaced by word-processors, computers, laptops, tablets and smart-phones: all became essential technology to make sending and receiving messages quicker and simpler.   But the risk now is that we no longer select carefully the people who need to read what we have to say. We can send our message to a few thousand people at the click of a mouse.

A man frustrated from information overload - Getty Images
A man frustrated from information overload – Getty Images

So a clogged inbox has become the scourge of the modern office worker. Sifting through the messages and sorting the essential from the junk takes time. Deciding what not to read has become a vital bureaucratic skill; the ‘Delete’ button has become a crucial tool to avoid being overwhelmed by the deluge of emails.

Social media can both help and hinder. Expressing a thought in 140 characters is a healthy discipline. If you want to convey a short, sharp message to a wide audience, Twitter, Facebook and Instagram must be part of your arsenal. But too much brevity can be risky.

One important risk is that we don’t have enough time to think. If you wander away from your terminal for a well-earned cup of coffee, a new flood of messages will arrive, all demanding instant responses.   In these circumstances, advice and analysis can become short-term, tactical and rushed, rather than well-considered, fully thought-through and strategic.

Time is precious. We need to use is wisely. That should mean devoting enough time to doing things well rather than simply trying to clear them out of the way as fast as possible. Whatever our endeavour, we should savour the experience and consider how we can gain and learn from it. Creativity and innovation – crucial elements in much that we do – can only deliver real benefits if the researchers and innovators have time to develop their ideas fully.

Even in our leisure, we can use our time smartly. Consider the tourist who rushes round Europe trying to have his or her photo taken in front of every major landmark. And consider the visitors to Petra who stroll through the Siq to The Treasury and are told that they have ‘done’ Petra. Imagine how much they are missing.

The Welsh poet William Davies wrote a poem called “Leisure” with the classic line: “What is this life if, full of care, We have no time to stand and stare.” He was talking about appreciating the beauty of nature and savouring the world around us. When we look at how we use our leisure – or how we manage our daily routines – it is worth taking time to stop, stand and stare.

5 comments on “Time to Stand and Stare

  1. well said Sir! We should take a break to look at our daily routine and decide what our main priorities are . As this statement says “We will never be younger as we are tonight” a day that passes never come back. We should dedicate more time to what really matters in our life.

  2. I totally agree with you sir. I live in Madaba and I work in Amman. For the past 10 years I’ve been driving home via the same route, passing by the same houses, realizing over the years the additions to this mentally drawn layout. Recently, I started looking at different things, different angles and new “zoom-in” techniques! Even though I couldn’t remember what was it that I zoomed at but still, I lived a new “moment” that moment that made me feel different. Thank you for the post.

  3. Really its a such amazing words.. It reflects our routine lifestyle.
    Simply you are great ambassador

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About Peter Millett

Peter arrived in Tunis on 23 June 2015 to take up his post as Ambassador to Libya. Previously he was British Ambassador to Jordan from February 2011 to June 2015. He was High Commissioner to…

Peter arrived in Tunis on 23 June 2015 to take up his post as
Ambassador to Libya.
Previously he was British Ambassador to Jordan from February 2011 to June 2015.
He was High Commissioner to Cyprus from 2005 – 2010.
He was Director of Security in the Foreign and Commonwealth Office
from 2002-2005, dealing with all aspects of security for British
diplomatic missions overseas.
From 1997-2001 he served as Deputy Head of Mission in Athens.
From 1993-96 Mr Millett was Head of Personnel Policy in the FCO.
From 1989-93 he held the post of First Secretary (Energy) in the UK
Representative Office to the European Union in Brussels, representing
the UK on all energy and nuclear issues.
From 1981-1985 he served as Second Secretary (Political) in Doha.
Peter was born in 1955 in London.  He is married to June Millett and
has three daughters, born in 1984, 1987 and 1991.  
His interests include his family, tennis and travel.