Forty pairs of eyes watched us curiously in the library of the Josika Miklos High School. The teachers of the “Hungarian School”, as the high-school is known in this Transylvanian town still suffering the effects of de-industrialization and subsequent migration, invited me to talk to the students about trafficking in persons. Much to their praise, they do so each year, unlike many others schools and high-schools in the area where the topic is still looked at with some sort of shame. Or, better said, overlooked. This year I’ve extended the invitation to Codruta, a volunteer working in prevention activities with the eLiberare NGO.
They are 8th grade students and many giggle while we talk about recruitment via social media or about how patient a “loverboy” can be. They stop when we reach the issue of exploitation in agriculture and construction. They are at that age most quoted in statistics about trafficking and Romania as a country of origin: “minor, 12 to 14, coming from an unstable environment… “
Building Partnerships and Trust
But then there are also proofs of how far we have come: the partnerships between not for profits and public institutions, be it local or national, focused on prevention or survivals’ assistance, shows time and again that informal, grassroots coalitions built in times of need, often work better than those resulted from dry, endless applications to donors or grant givers. The National Agency Against Trafficking in Persons’ representatives generously opened the debate at the British Embassy by talking about what went well and less so and the need to build trust among partners. Trust building, in a country where social trust is still at its lowest, in a field still marked by under financing, overwhelming personalities (as it takes one as such to resist in such an environment), suspicions of abuse and corruption, of “cynical play” and confusing legislation, is probably the biggest gain of the day.
I come back to the students and as I talk to them about what it means to be vulnerable, I see some of those eyes looking down. “Do you know what domestic violence means? Victims are often recruited from families suffering from physical and emotional abuse, as they are desperately trying to find a way out from sufferance. Often, the recruiter is someone from their network. Be careful who you trust and always try to find someone to talk to. Someone you can trust. You are at the age when you want to explore the world and you want to accumulate experiences. It is a wonderful time so make the most out of it also by being prudent as well as generous with your colleagues, with your friends, by looking after them”.
Civil Society’s Coming of Age
Agreeing to Differ With Respect And Solidarity
There will always be issues, methods and even principles we will disagree on: amongst ourselves – the civil society organizations -, among us and the public authorities, among national and international stakeholders. But since I am still able to remember the times in which an entire country “agreed” on everything and dissent was punished, I can only be grateful for that. We will have different opinions, and not only opinions but well-researched arguments on how the institution of the National Rapporteur should function, ethical debates on whether prostitution should be legalized and so on. But we know that from great debates comes greater progress.
We ended our prevention activity by asking students to be generous and show support not only to their friends but also to those colleagues that might seem different: who are not well off, who are quieter or who might seem shy or withdrawn. It’s not very different from what my hopes are for what might be the motto of an extended and loose structure of actors working in combating trafficking: that whether we agree or disagree, we will do so with respect and solidarity.